Simon, who as an attorney has handled Title IX cases for more than a decade, said the off-campus exclusion implemented by the Trump administration “covers schools that want to sweep up sexual assaults.” under the rug, as was done for Mara”. Louk majored in modern music at Visible, a small two-building school in downtown Memphis that serves just over 100 students. She focused on songwriting and hoped to start a career as a singer-songwriter.
On November 2, 2021, a classmate, who is not named in the complaint, came to her apartment to play board games. It was the first time they spent alone time together, and that night he sexually assaulted her, the complaint states.
Louk informed an administrator of the alleged assault the next day. She said she shared classes with the student and wanted to make sure he wouldn’t harass her on campus.
“I didn’t expect them to kick him out, but I trusted them enough to put a plan in place to keep him away from me and the other students,” Louk said.
Louk filed a sexual assault report with Memphis police on Nov. 4, according to law enforcement records. The following week, an officer called Louk to tell him they didn’t have enough evidence to make an arrest, she said. The Memphis Police Department did not respond to a request for comment.
The accused assailant is not named because he has not been charged with a crime. Attempts by NBC News to reach him were unsuccessful.
On Nov. 15, a Visible Music College administrator told Louk and his parents that because police have refused to charge the accused student, “there’s really nothing we can do at this point, there’s will therefore follow classes as usual,” according to an audio recording of the meeting shared by Simon. Another administrator said that if Louk disagrees, she should “talk to the Memphis Police Department.”
The focus of the meeting then shifted to Louk’s relationship with her ex-boyfriend. According to the complaint, the accused student told the college that Louk had had sex with her ex-boyfriend that semester, and the ex-boyfriend confirmed it. Louk said that was untrue, but administrators told her she would be disciplined for breaking school rules.
“It was like a movie,” Louk said. “It didn’t feel real; it didn’t seem real. I kept thinking it was just a horrible, crazy nightmare, and I hope one day I’ll wake up from it.
The college wanted Louk to sign what it called a “pastoral contract”, confessing to breaking rules on premarital sex. According to a copy of the contract reviewed by NBC News, Louk would be required to complete his degree online, barred from campus and prohibited from speaking to other students about his alleged assault.
“We strongly believe that these restrictions will help provide the necessary structure and ensure that you are able to resolve the spiritual and emotional issues behind the offenses,” the contract reads.
“I kept thinking it was just a horrible, crazy nightmare, and I hope one day I’ll wake up from it.”
On Nov. 24, the college released a brief statement to Louk saying it would not conduct its own investigation into the alleged rape because the school did not have jurisdiction over an incident that occurred off campus, citing Title IX regulations, according to the complaint. (The college has a dorm, but Louk lived in an apartment.) Louk was outraged, especially because the school planned to punish her for allegedly having premarital sex off campus.
“They weren’t going to help me basically because it was off campus,” Louk said, “but with a separate situation that was also off campus, they were going to handle this and punish me for it.”
Many universities grant amnesty to students who report sexual assaults that occurred while breaking school rules, including the ban on alcohol and drugs. In 2017, Brigham Young University, a private school supported by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, implemented an amnesty policy for students who have suffered or witnessed sexual assault. BYU adopted the policy after coming under fire for trying to discipline students who reported sexual assaults for violating honor code rules against premarital sex or for being in someone’s bedroom. of the opposite sex.
Louk refused to sign the pastoral contract. She completed the fall semester online, then retired and moved to Iowa. She was nine credits away from getting her bachelor’s degree.
Back in Iowa, she felt alone, pushed out of the community she had built in college, she said. If she had been allowed to stay, she would have graduated this week.
“On top of what the school did to me being completely illegal,” she said, “it was completely immoral – especially with a school that purports to demonstrate Christian morals and values. quite the opposite of what Jesus would do.